Hello ! This is a page where I put in tips on how to dress to faller my figure, fashion that I love

I loved Bipasha Basu´s style in Jism...
Clean whites, flowy fabrics... the beauty of Pondicherry and Auroville.

I´ll try to find some pics, although it´s not easy.











Beautiful house...

Barefoot, wind playing with the hair and the fabric, the sun kissing the skin...
     These beautiful  clothes are inspired by nature, the beach, and India... maybe a little too hippy patterns (i´m not a big fan of paisley and flower prints), but I love the flowy free silhouettes... maybe the same in beautiful colours, without patterns...

From http://www.aurobelle.com

"Being comfortable with who you are. People think sexy is big breasts, a curvy body, no cellulite. It's not that. Take the girl at the beach with the cellulite legs, wearing her bathing suit the way she likes it, walking with a certain air, comfortable with herself: that woman is sexy. Then you see the perfect girl who's really thin, tugging at her bathing suit, wondering how her hair looks. That's not sexy." 

-- Jennifer Lopez

 

 

Jlo's signature style tricks:

(goals: feminine look, to flatter but not enlarge ample butt, to show off slim waist)

• V-necks always flatter !
• Empire cut & a cinched waist: accentuates curves and draws attention to small waist. Plus it gives a fitted look to clothes.
• Ultra long sleeves make the arms look long and slender.
• Tops should either hit the hip (end at navel lenght), or they should be long and end below the butt or lower. Styles that cut through the middle of the hips are not allowed !
• Low rise jeans flatter the butt.
• White: flatters all skin tones, and looks so clean and fresh !
  

Please note: Although I have used clothes from Jlo´s design line, I strongly condemn her use of furs in her designs.

 

Here are some examples:


Jacket: empire waist & a cinched waist. V-neck. In white. Either elegantly long, or hitting the hips.





V-neck,empire waist, soft flowy fabric

Boot cut silhouette with curvy waistband.





2% lycra spandex for just a bit of stretch.
Low-rise shorter inseam flatters butt.
Bootcut openingbalances heavy hips. Clean styled back without pockets: only for the perfect butt !

White, V-neck, navel lenght.


          

Soft feminine necklines, fitted waist, long sleeves & hip lenghts.

The basic rule is simple: the chunkier the leg, the chunkier the heel ought to be. It's all about proportions, baby.

It's also all about shunning ankle straps, which "sever" your leg at your ankle. They make your legs look shorter. And we all need shorter legs like we need holes in our heads.

 

Dictionary of Shoes

Chunky Heel Pump: The rule is: The chunkier the leg, the chunkier the heel.

 

   Slingback: In a fleshtone color, this shoe is sexy and slimming. incredibly graceful and leg-lengthening - though, truth be told, a smidge officey and boring.

 Stiletto Slide: Pick one that's cut lower in front to lengthen your leg line and show off your cute toes.

 Bad Mule: Cut too high, mules have leg shortening effect.

 UGG Boot: The bigger the shoe, the thinner your leg will look.

 Good Mule: Cut lower, the mule is a graceful, ladylike shoe that won't break up the line of your leg.

 D'Orsay Pump: The ultimate skinny shoe. possibly the most universally flattering shoe ever designed

 Bad Mary Jane: Ankle straps "sever" the leg from the foot and make legs look shorter and wider.

 Sculpted Heels: They can enhance the grace of a thick ankle.

 Ballet Flat: Lower cut is more leg lengthening and more flattering.

 

kitten heel: will make you look like you're so fat that you've squashed your heel down.

 

Boots

Shorter styles work best with pants, mid-calf styles work with cropped pants and skirts, knee-high boots work best with skirts.

For heavy legs avoid ankle boots, but choose tall boots.

If you've fallen in love with boots that don't fit, seek out your local cobbler - boots can be stretched as a last resort.

some boots are more sculpted and curvy through the heel, which makes your legs instantly look curvier and sexier, no matter what size they are.

Some great shapes for boots: tall and slouch; riding boots; slim-fitting ankle-covering boots with sculpted stiletto heels.

 

Look for:

Nude, fleshtone, or neutral colors will blend better with your skin, your hosiery, or whatever you're wearing to extend your leg line and make your gams look longer.

Pointed toes elongate the foot and, ergo, the leg. Round toes are second best. Stay away from square toes entirely - they make your feet look like blocks. For heavy legs, avoid very pointy toes.

the bigger the shoe, the thinner your leg.

It's also all about shunning ankle straps, which "sever" your leg at your ankle. They make your legs look shorter. The more of your leg and the top of your foot you show, the longer your leg line will appear.

For heavy legs avoid stiletto heels. Avoid ankle boots, but choose tall boots.

Avoid chunky heels for thick ankles

 

Socks:

For every shoe, there's a sock. Just make sure you can't see it.

Socks that end at your ankles do the same thing ankle straps do - they visually sever your legs at that point. Pick secret socks - ones that hide in your shoes instead. You can get these everywhere. Gap makes some great ones called "Not Socks" but if you can't find any, just fold your socks down into your shoes.

1) SIZING: a) As mentioned above, sizing is not standardized among hosiery manufacturers. This means that an "A" is not always an "A" or a "B" a "B" and so forth. Be sure to read hosiery packaging carefully. b) If purchasing at a Department Store or Drug Store, it is usually safe to purchase your size (by consulting the weight and height and in some instances, waist and hip sizes as listed on the packaging). Be aware that you get exactly what you pay for. Most bargain hose are "slightly irregular" and not prone to proper fit. There is, however, a way to get around disappointing bargain purchases. Go up a size or choose tall (if available). 2) CLASSIFICATION: a) Ultra sheer: For those of you who dare to be almost bare. These are particularly sheer, and allow your skin tone to show through. These should be handled carefully. b) Day Sheer/Business Sheer: A bit less sheer for those of you straddling the fence between bare it sheer and modest sheer. These should also be handled carefully, but are durable enough to be worn daily. c) Spandex Sheer: For the less daring, this mix of nylon and spandex still offers a silky, smooth feel. They are a bit more durable and also an option for daily wear. d) Circulation Enhancing: (aka support hose) A nylon and yarn combination that's slightly heavier. It supports and lessens leg fatigue with a tender application of force to important parts on the leg. This pressure has a massaging effect that increases leg circulation. e) Shimmer/Glimmer: These shimmer when hit by the light. They are perfect for showing up the shape of the legs. Recommended but not restricted to evening wear. f) Opaques/Tights: For the less daring or those seeking warmth. These offer complete coverage, additional warmth and in darker colors present a leaner look for the leg. g) Cellulite Control Hose: These contain micro beads used in the creams on the market, used for treatment of cellulite. The beads have a life of up to six (6) washings. h) Control Top Pantyhose: These contain extra spandex and lycra that shape and lift the buttocks and flatten the stomach. i) Body Stockings: For that lean bodyline. These are full body stockings, similar to those worn by dancers, but made of lightweight material. 3) COLOR: a) Rule of thumb is darker and opaque lends a leaner look b) Sheerer lighter colors show up the shape of the legs 4) CARE: a) Choosing the correct size determines the life term of your hose. b) Take off jewelry when about to handle hose c) Spot check hands, nails, and toenails for roughness before handling hose d) Handle gently and avoid excessive stretching e) Read manufacturers guidelines before washing Call me negative, but I had a hard time listing hosiery do's and no trouble at all with hosiery don'ts. Here they are in alphabetical order: WHAT'S FLATTERING: a) Hosiery that matches outfit b) Pantyhose or thongs for close fitting clothing c) That extra hose kept in a work drawer to avoid run emergencies WHAT'S NOT FLATTERING: a) Hairy legs visible through hose b) Mismatched nude shades c) Open toe shoes and pantyhose (now a shoe with just the big toe peeking out will just make the cut, but three toes and up, leave off the hose) d) Panty lines e) Runs with nail polish to stop them f) Short skirt with pantyhose that aren't sheer to the waist g) Thigh highs that are doubling as a tourniquet h) Too loose hose that sags around the knees and/or ankles i) Too tight hose that creates visible separations under clothing j) Visible pantyhose above hipsters k) Visible reinforced heels and toes l) White pantyhose on anyone who's not clearly a nurse li)

thick waistband make the upper body look longer

 

thin waistband Narrow waistline widths minimize the focus at the waist.

 

dropped waistlines make the upper body look longer, shorten legs

high waistline shortens waistcreate the illusion that your legs start in a higher place.

 

            Length:

Minis visually lengthen legs and re-balance proportions; however, short, full styles only make legs look shorter. they accentuate heavy thighs.

Just above knees play off knees and elongate legs.

Skirts to the knee will highlight the shortness of your leg

Below knees

Mid-calf lenght help visually lengthen the lower body. draws attention to the widest part of your legs, making them look heavier.

Long To add length to short legs choose: Long skirts with high heels

 

A-line universally flattering and hides large hips.

pencil-straight skirts, increase butt, accentuate top heaviness.

 

Large Waist. Choose elasticized waistbands or smooth-front waistbands with elastic in back, but avoid too much fullness; have just enough for a comfortable fit over the hips and waist. Narrow waistline widths minimize the focus at the waist.

Long Waist. Choose wider waistbands and belts and high-rise waistlines, unless you're full- or low-busted. Mid-calf-length skirts help visually lengthen the lower body. Avoid mini skirts and styles that begin below the waistline.

Large Tummy. For the most comfortable fit, choose narrow, elasticized waistbands or those that are smooth in front and elasticized in back. Wrap and A-line skirts are easier to fit, as are soft fabric skirts without too much fullness through the waist and hips. Avoid pleats from the waistline and fly front closures--they add bulk to the tummy.

Wide Hips. Choose skirt styles with slenderizing, lengthwise details--a side-front seam for example. Front or back zippers, and side pockets are also slimming details. Avoid bulky fabric or layer skirts.

Large Derriere and Waist. Elasticized waistlines with gentle fullness and softly gathered skirt styles will camouflage rather than accentuate your curves. Rather than pencil-straight skirts, steer toward A-line styles with a little more fullness for easier fitting. Avoid skirts with flared trumpet styling or ruffles at the lower edge that only accentuate body width.

Short Legs. Short skirts visually lengthen legs and re-balance proportions; however, short, full styles only make legs look shorter. Other lengths can be worn if they're in correct proportion--try mid-calf styles with heels, and knee to floor lengths. Skirts  to the knee will highlight the shortness of your leg. Steer toward slim, trim skirt styles and position skirt details close to the waistline to draw attention away from short legs. To add length to short legs choose Long skirts with high heels

Glossary of jeans

●    Right hand twill - Using uniform yarns, this weave is considered more rugged.

Heavy, stiffer fabrics (right-hand twills) won't hang as well on your body.

 

●    Left hand twill - The weave runs diagonally, resulting in a softer, loftier feel.

softer weaves and washes that will drape your lower body.

 

●    Ring Spun Denim - The original denim fabric, which is known for its characteristic slubs.

 

●    Open-End Denim - The most popular type of denim that results in a consistent yarn thickness.

 

●    Dirty denim - Filler yarns are brown (instead of natural which is woven with the indigo) which gives the denim a "dirty" appearance

 

●    Stonewashed - Most jeans today are stonewashed, but not in pumice stones like the original method. Now enzymes, sand, ceramic balls and other methods give jeans their worn look.

 

●    whiskering (those with the creases around the front pockets)

 

         Cut

The cut of a pair of jeans refers to how the garment is shaped. The cut usually refers to the legs of the jeans:

●    capri length: Capris are short jeans, with the hem stopping at mid-calf level.

●    Make you look taller. Are surprisingly slimming, especially if you stick to dark denim or black and wear ones that aren't too short or too long. They should end at the least-wide part of your calves, ideally a few inches above the ankle.

 

●    Classic five-pocket: Straight waist, hip and thigh, Slim-fitting pant legs that taper slightly from knee to ankle

 

●    Bellbottoms - Start to flare at the knee, resulting in a 22+ inch leg opening.

 

●    Peg legs - Extremely narrow leg opening (very '80s)

Shorten legs

 

●    Bootcut - Slim through the legs, with a slight flare at the ankle to accommodate a boot (about a 16-18 inch opening). Boot cut jeans are slim in the thigh area, and begin to angle out below the knee to make a moderately wide hem at the bottom.

the most flattering jean legs of all, looks good on just about every body type. balances out wider hips and fuller thighs. they elongate the leg and give some heft to the ankle area to even out proportions.

 

●    Flares - Slim through the legs, flaring right above the ankle -- to about an 21+ inch opening. Like boot cut jeans, flare leg jeans angle out below the knee as well, but much more so to create a bell-like shape at the hem.

a slight flare make your legs look longer. they elongate the leg and give some heft to the ankle area to even out proportions.

 

●    straight leg: Straight leg jeans have a uniform fit from the top of the pant leg to the bottom. The bottom does not flare out.

 

●    Ankle length: Ankle length jeans should fit with the hem coming down to above the ankle bone.

 

Rise

The rise on a pair of jeans determines how high or low the jeans will sit on the waist:

 

●    low-rise: This type sit below the belly button, above or just at the hip bones.

Low-rise jeans  create a great silhouette. Can flatter your bottom (Jennifer Lopez uses this trick often). Make you look taller, minimize bottom and broad hips

●    ultra-low rise: These jeans sits even lower than the low-rise jeans, usually below the hip bones.

extremely low cut denim will draw attention to your midsection.

●    high waist: high waist jeans have a rise that comes above the belly button.

create the illusion that your legs start in a higher place. extremely  high waisted will draw attention to your midsection.

●    Normal waist: Ample tummy: wear stretch denim that sits just below your natural waist.

 

         Fit

The fit of a pair of jeans refers to how the garment sits on the body; it especially refers to the seat and thigh area:

 

●    slim fit: Slim fit jeans are tight in the seat and thigh area.

 

●    regular fit: Regular fit jeans are slim in the seat and thigh area, but are roomy enough to be comfortable.

 

●    relaxed fit: These jeans are roomy in the seat and thigh area, but not baggy. Generous through the seat and thighs. Fuller pant legs that taper from knee to ankle, or pant legs that are straight from knee to ankle

 

●    loose fit: Loose fit jeans are very roomy and often baggy throughout.

 

 

 

●    Big bottom - Avoid skin-tight styles and any extra embellishment on the back (like the new popular vintage treatments that make the butt area look worn). Choose pockets that are proportionally sized and spaced (too small and wide spaced will make your backside look even broader). Styles with a slight flare or ankle interest (vents, embellishment, etc.) will balance out your lush figure. Low-rise jeans can also flatter your bottom (Jennifer Lopez uses this trick often). Relaxed fit would be your best bet. Avoid jeans with small or no pockets, as that will make your butt appear bigger. Pockets should be regular size and right in the middle of your buttock.

●    Wide Hips: To minimize wide hips, try a pair of jeans with diagonal seams or super-low rise ones. Steer clear of anything that’s tapered or high waisted.

●    Ample tummy - Never, ever buy pleats. Choose five-pocket styles or jeans with slash pockets on the diagonal. Look for stretch jeans (that aren't snug) for some give. Elastic waists may feel comfy, but the denim bunches below the elastic and adds unwanted inches.

The fit- Wear stretch denim that sits just below your natural waist. This style paired with a baggier shirt that is fitted around the bottom seam will cover and flatter your figure.
Stay away from- extremely low cut denim or high waisted denim that will draw attention to your midsection.
Tip- Highlight your legs, stomach, and chest with a lower cut loose top and slim jeans.

●    Heavy thighs -- Go for a style that skims (but doesn't hug) your leg. Flares and boot cuts are good because they elongate the leg and give some heft to the ankle area to even out proportions. If you’re looking for more room in the thighs and calves, choose a style that doesn’t hug the body such as relaxed fit or boy-cut jeans. Jeans with a low waist, low pockets also work well. The pant leg should not bunch up at the ankle; the hem should stop at around the low midpoint of the back of your shoe. The worst? Peg legs, stretch jeans that fit skin tight and baggy jeans with no shape.

●    Short legs -- Slim-fit styles with a slight flare make your legs look longer. Avoid cuffs and peg legs. Jeans with pinstripes or cuffed hems look great on women with shorter legs, and those with a larger bottom should choose a low-rise cut with back pockets. shorts to the knee will highlight the shortness of your leg. Steer clear of cuffed and wide-leg pants.

●    Curvy: The fit- To accentuate your shape; look for stretch denim that sits just below your natural waistline. Choose denim that fits best around your hips and thighs, run straight from the hips to the knee, and a straight leg jean and a boot cut that balances out your curves. or a slight or more generous flare at the leg opening. A wide boot-cut silhouette is also flattering, balances your curves. Consider either distressed jeans or ultra-dark jeans that flatter your curvy figure. A stretch denim that sits just above your waist will prevent the panty exposing gap when you sit. Ask for an "original hem."
Stay away from- Baggy denim that will add to your curviness.

 

 

 

General tips

●    Five-pocket styling looks best, but you'll want to avoid excessive embellishment on the back pockets if the size of your backside bothers you.

●    Low-rise flare jeans create a great silhouette,

●    The longer the jeans, the longer (and thinner) your legs look. Wear bootcut jeans as long as you possibly can without having them bunch up around your legs.

●    Wear your pants on the longer side, so they break over the middle of the foot

●    Heavy, stiffer fabrics (right-hand twills) won't hang as well on your body. Look for softer weaves and washes that will drape your lower body.

●    The darker the denim, the thinner you will look. Conversely, you'll look larger in lighter washes (and the new treatments that make you new jeans look old that feature "worn" areas will highlight your figure wherever they are -- like the backside of your jeans; the folds of the crotch, etc.)

 

 

 

 

1.     Cropped jeans make legs look shorter -- especially when they have cuffs. 2.     The white pinstripes on these black jeans lengthen the look of legs. 3.     Prominent vertical stitching down the sides stretches out your silhouette.